In universities, change often slows not because people donât care, but because they quietly assume leadership lives somewhere else. Across our work with teams and leaders in Higher Education, weâve seen how this expectation drains agency, delays decisions, and creates a culture of permission-seeking. This article explores why that happens, and how organisations can unlock leadership everywhere, not just at the top.
How distributed leadership can unlock decision-making in universities
Weâve been reflecting on the patterns weâve seen across the universities weâve worked with over the past year – and one theme stands out more than any other.
Thereâs something wrong with the assumption that we need to be led.
I donât mean leadership is irrelevant – far from it. But in many organisations, especially in Higher Education, a quiet belief has taken hold: that progress depends on someone else. The Dean, the Director, the Head of Department. Someone above who will make the decisions, fix the issue, or tell us the next move.
What if that assumption is holding you back?
Itâs not a new idea. From Peter Drucker in the 1960s to more recent work by BrenĂ© Brown and many others, organisational psychology tends to show that collaborative methods of leading harness more knowledge and creativity across an organisation.
Weâve been exploring this idea a lot recently at ThenSomehow.
It keeps coming up because it taps into something so familiar. Many of the challenges we see across universities: bottlenecks, slow decision-making, cautious teams, overworked managers – trace back to a shared belief: leadership lives somewhere else.
Everyoneâs looking up for the answer
A recent project brought this to life for me.
We were working with a team running a programme nested inside multiple layers of the university. They faced a resourcing issue they felt powerless to resolve alone. They believed only their manager had the power to fix it.
The programme team said, âThatâs for the department to fix.â
The department said, âThatâs a school-level issue.â
The school pointed to the faculty.
The faculty said, âWeâll need to check with the university.â
And when we got to the people âup there,â they felt just as stuck: âSounds like a local issue, itâs not something we can solve here.â
When leadership is imagined as something that only flows downward, everything travels upward for permission. Agency stalls. People stop experimenting, collaborating, or acting on ideas because they donât believe theyâre allowed to.
The culture of permission
Once you notice this, you see it everywhere.
Sometimes it starts for good reason – like during a period of financial restraint, structural change, increased scrutiny. But the controls and caution often last longer than the crisis.
We still see cases where a manager with full budget authority canât release a small payment without a physical signature from a Vice Dean. âItâs more than my jobâs worth,â theyâre told.
It sounds absurd, but itâs entirely human. People want to do the right thing. They want to be safe. So they copy in more people, seek reassurance, double-check what to do. Over time, this becomes the norm: a culture of permission-seeking, risk-aversion, and back-covering where everyone waits for someone else to go first.
Not because people donât care, but because the system quietly teaches them that caution is safer than agency.
The cost of assuming we need to be led
When we assume leadership must come from elsewhere, we give away our agency, our power to act.
Teams become reactive. Ideas get stuck. People stop asking questions or trying alternatives. They wait.
And leaders donât want this either – the thing we hear most from senior managers is: âI just wish my team would step up.â
And yet the system and the unspoken rules reward the opposite.
The result is a kind of organisational learned helplessness.
A different view of leadership
So whatâs the alternative?
Leadership isnât something thatâs just bestowed. Itâs something that happens everywhere in a healthy organisation: in conversations, small decisions, moments of initiative, acts of clarity or convening.
In that view, the job of formal leaders isnât to hold all the authority but to create the conditions for others to lead. To clear the way. To help people notice the leadership theyâre already doing.
When US Navy Captain David Marquet, author of Turn that Ship Around! took command of the underperforming nuclear submarine, the USS Santa Fe – which had poor morale and the worst retention rate, he decided to “never give another order” except to direct the firing of a weapon. For everything else, he empowered the right people to act without approvals. As a result, the Santa Fe went from worst in the fleet to first.
At ThenSomehow, we love this distributed or collective leadership. Not dismantling hierarchy – but rebalancing where leadership shows up.
Unlocking agency in practice
Weâve seen the impact of this shift again and again.
At one university, we were asked to design an Emerging Leaders programme. The brief focused on leadership skills, but what participants actually needed wasnât more theory, it was confidence. Many didnât consider themselves leaders at all.
Through reflection, dialogue and practice, they discovered that leadership was already present in the way they listened, asked questions, supported colleagues, and convened conversations. Once they saw themselves differently, everything changed. They stopped waiting for permission. They started trying things, nudging change, making progress from where they stood.
In another institution, we ran a series of cross-faculty rapid improvement âcoalitionsâ, each were given practical challenges and the freedom to act without constant approval. They didnât have formal authority – but they had purpose, clarity, and trust.
Some produced modest outputs, some more substantial, but the size of the project wasnât the point. What mattered was how they worked: quickly, collaboratively, confidently. People left with new networks and a renewed sense of agency.
They shifted from âIâm waiting to be ledâ to âI can make a difference.â
What helps people step up
Across our work, a few patterns stand out that can unlock this kind of leadership:
- Build confidence, not dependency. Encourage your team to act even when things arenât perfect. âGood enough for now, safe enough to tryâ is a powerful mindset.
- Ask before assuming. Questions such as âWhat outcome are we really after?â often reveal that half the work isnât needed.
- Model distributed leadership. Run meetings where everyone contributes. Make leadership a shared activity.
- Celebrate initiative. When someone acts without waiting, recognise it – especially when it goes well (and sometimes even when it doesnât). Thatâs how new norms take hold.
What leadership really looks like
We still need people in formal leadership roles. Absolutely.
But the best leaders donât try to be indispensable – they try to become increasingly unnecessary. Their success is measured in how confidently their teams act without them.
Thatâs not the absence of leadership. Thatâs leadership working as it should.
So what might this mean for you?
Whether youâre working inside Higher Education or in another complex organisation:
- Where are people waiting for permission they donât actually need?
- What would make something safe enough to try?
- What could you do to help people see the leadership theyâre already exercising?
Because leadership isnât simply about leading from the front – itâs about helping others realise they were leading all along.
At ThenSomehow, we help organisations unlock agency and collaboration while making rapid improvements – so that leadership becomes something everyone does, not something everyone waits for.
â Read about one of our early experiments in distributed leadership: Aston University case study
At ThenSomehow we help universities and other HE organisations build emotional literacy, increase empathy, and help you see the world differently, giving you practical tools to shift the stuff thatâs stuck.
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